※When parents get angry, it isn't the time to get angry back. A lot of times they're not upset with you, but with their boss, the neighbor, or the price of vegetables. You just happen to be there at the wrong time. Look hurt? Get out of the way when they're in a bad mood. They need some time and space. Go outside, to a friend's house, or to your room. At last they will become calm and miss you.
| ※If you have trouble talking to your parents, or if they get angry every time you try to discuss something, write a note. Put it on their bedside table. Parents are easily moved by notes like this and will probably keep them forever.
| ※Do not create situations where there is a winner and a loser. You're the child and will probably lose most of the time. How many times have you grounded your mother or taken away the phone privileges(特权) from your dad? Try to compromise with each other and work out a situation where both of you win.
| ※Ask your parents once a day, "Is there anything I can do for you?" Most of the time they will probably say no, or give you something that will take a few minutes to complete. Your parents will love this and see you as a very cooperative(可合作的) person. When this happens, they will probably be more cooperative with you. You could also surprise them by doing something they don't make you do. They'll tell everyone you are the best possible son or daughter and, what's more, they will believe it.
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小题1:Leave a note on your parents’ bedside table if___________. | A．your parents quarrel with each other | | B．you find it difficult to talk with them | | C．you want to be the best possible child | | D．you go outside to your friend’s house |
小题2:From the above we learn_________. | A．if we want to help do house work, parents always refuse us. | | B．your parents will be hurt if you get angry back at a wrong time. | | C．parents often ground children and control their use of the telephone | | D．if we want to discuss with parents, we should wait till they are happy |
小题3:The underlined word “compromise” probably means_________. 小题4:What’s the topic of the above? | A．How to cooperate with family and friends | | B．Arguments between children and parents | | C．Tips for teenagers on family problems | | D．Advice on educating angry children |
小题5:You can read the above _________. | A．in a magazine | B．in a newspaper | | C．in a poster | D．on the Internet |
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