三、阅读理解（15*2=30分） A Everyone should learn to apologize. Apology language do work. Have you ever tried to apologize, only to be refused? It may be that you were offering partial apology in a “language” that was foreign to your listener. The five languages of apology include: Apology Language 1: “I am sorry.” List the hurtful effects of your action. NOT “I am sorry if…”, but “I am sorry that…”. You might ask if they want to add any points that you have not recognized. Apology Language 2: “I was wrong.” Name your mistake and accept fault. Note that it is easier to say “You are right ” than “ I am wrong”, but the latter carries more weight. Apology Language 3: “What can I do to make it right ?” How are you now? How shall I make amends to you? How can I RESTORE YOUR CONFIDENC that I love you even I was so hurtful to you? Apology Language 4: “I WILL TRY NOT TO DO THAT AGAIN.” Engage in problem-solving. Do not make excuses for yourself such as: “Well my day just so …” Instead, offer what you will change to prevent yourself putting them in the same bad situation again. Apology Language 5: “Will you please forgive me?” Be patient in seeking forgiveness. They may need some time or greater clarification of your input from Apology Languages 1-4. Finally, your apology may not be accepted, but at least you know that you have been faithful in offering a sincere olive branch of peace. 41. When offerring an apology, which of the following dose the author prefer? A. “You are right .” B. “I am sorry if …” C. “I am wrong.” D. “Well , my day was just so…” 42. In the last paragraph ,the author tells us even if your apology may not be accepted , at least __________ . A .It is not your fault any more. B. Your mind will be at peace. C. your friend will make peace with you. D. your apology is true to your heart. 43 .What does the passage mainly talk about? A. Five tips for apology that work. B. Five ways of refusing apology. C. The function (功能) of apology language. D. The importance of apology language |